How To End An Affair For Good. Ask yourself what you were avoiding. Wanting to end the affair isn’t enough to end the affair.
Pour out your heart to a friend and tell them about everything and how you feel about it. The moment you feel that the affair has to end, take a firm stand. And it’s always a good way to.
For some people, having an affair may seem like a good idea at the time and a really bad idea once it becomes too complicated to manage a double life and the guilt becomes too difficult to bear.
Instead, do it by email, letter, or text. Saying things like, “i think we should end this,” leaves room for interpretation. Let them become your support, you encourager, and, if necessary, your courage. Affairs do not solve the underlying problem in your relationship.