How To Stop Lusting Over A Girl. Like, i've met that one girl that i put on a pedestal and am fully aware of it, but there are still real things about her i have not found anywhere else. But perhaps most dangerously in our lust for other people, we fail to see them as beings without a soul, a heart, a mind.
When horny thoughts come up, acknowledge them briefly and then mentally set them aside. Try to pray about it, and when the lust comes, just think, god help me, or have a bible verse in mind, and try to not objectify any women. Finally, say something affirming to yourself:
I'm not lusting after her anymore, but getting the thought of well, nobody will ever match that. gets into my head from time to time.
The same applies to kissing. Think about and do something else. Also it’s possible this type of obsessive thinking is connected to an anxiety disorder such as obsessive compulsive disorder (ocd). Suppose you made up your mind you were going to make it through one day without lusting after a woman.